Laughing Cats, a new duo with Lauren Schiff and Tony Fredianelli, have made something great with their latest song “Jerk.” Tony, a talented guitarist who used to play with Third Eye Blind, brings a lot of experience, while Lauren, who switched from acting to songwriting, adds a personal and emotional touch to the music. Together, they’ve made a song that feels genuine and easy to relate to.
“Jerk” is a song about facing our flaws head-on and taking responsibility for the hurt we’ve caused. It’s a vulnerable and honest look at how we sometimes find ourselves acting cold or distant in relationships, often without fully realizing the impact it has on those we care about. It’s a universal story—one we’ve all lived in one way or another—of recognizing that we’ve made mistakes, admitting them, and then figuring out how to make things right.
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What stands out in “Jerk” is how deeply personal yet incredibly relatable it is. The song’s lyrics explore the self-reflection we often go through during tough times—whether it’s realizing we’ve hurt someone or seeing that we’ve become someone we’re not proud of. The main message is simple but strong: growth begins when we admit our mistakes and take action to improve. It’s a reminder that change can be hard, but it’s always possible when we take responsibility for what we do.
Throughout the song, the feeling of emotional distance is palpable. The imagery of being “icy” and “cold” resonates with anyone who’s ever felt disconnected or distanced in a relationship. What makes this song so special is that it doesn’t stay stuck in regret or loneliness. Instead, there’s a feeling of hope. When the singer talks about wanting to “light my own fire,” it’s about the power to change ourselves and find comfort from within, not from others. The strength to heal and fix things begins with us.
In the end, “Jerk” isn’t just about feeling sorry—it’s about growing, making things right, and having the courage to be honest with ourselves. The message is clear: we all make mistakes, but we can always start over. It’s a song for anyone who’s looked at themselves, realized they need to change, and found the strength to do it- for themselves, not just for others.
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